going home

hey guys, how are you? itss the time of year when people are becomming friendlier, the weather is getting chillier, and we are thinking of going home to our families. well for me im thinking of two of the three things previously mentioned. heres a hint, its not the third one. i love my family but i just dont like to be around them. i really really really dont. they just aggravate me and they dont respect my husband. they dont respect how hard he works to provide for us. he wasnt always a soldier. when we first met, he was a struggling college student just like me. but when we met it was like dynamite and we just knew we were going to be together. now my family is what i like to call the "closet conservatives" they act all liberal but i swear a they are just a diferent breed of people. (no offense to any republicans that might read, honestly im a fence rider). my family hated him instantly and then we got married. now dont think i married him to "piss off mommy" because i didnt i honestly love my husband with everything that i am. when we first married we were dirt poor. i mean we wanted to be on rock bottom. not that we have millions in the bank now but to come from where we were to here, major improvement. it was so bad that my mother told me to pick out what box i want to live in, because if i stayed with him that is where i would be. but when he enlisted he became "loved" but they still talk down. and i feel like im not going to be subjected to that and neither is my husband. everyone hates my cousins wife, but no one said anything when he married her. why is it so different for me?